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Hi, my names Jessica.
I’m just wondering if you could help, I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 3 and a half years. We do not live together but do have a son.
We argue constantly and he makes me very sad by calling me ugly which puts me down so I split up with him but, I cannot manage without him. I get so sad and upset and always take him back, I’m scared to be without him sad as it may be.
I don’t know what to do and if I should leave him for good am I strong enough?
Thanks please get back in touch.
Bless you. What you are experiencing is completely natural. You feel as though you can’t live without him because he made sure you would feel this way. Living with an emotionally abusive person rewires your brain causing you fear, anxiety and pain. When he leaves and you are apart, you ‘crave’ to have his attention and what you wanted to live as love almost like a powerful drug. You experience a ‘calm’ when he texts or reaches out somehow and a relief feeling that maybe, just maybe, he will change or really love you. The problem is that the love you felt when you first met him was not real. He got your blueprint within minutes and built up his level of trust in you and made you feel as though the angels had swooped down and brought him there just for you. This feeling of care and the promises, were the drug but all lies. He doesn’t know what love is. Love is kindness, actions of care, the ability to give of yourself to another human being entirely. Love is spiritual. Your symptoms of feeling discarded is terrifying for you but you must decide that you cannot go on like this. The pain and suffering he is causing will become more powerful than the feeling of ‘loving him’. You love what he promised and with who you believed he pretended to be in the beginning. I would urge you to reach out for some counselling or speak with The National Domestic Violence Line. You have been suffering the effects of verbal and emotional, mental abuse and it will take a while to rewire your brain back to the time before you met him.
I will say a prayer for you but at this time, please know that he will not change and you must change. You need to take time out for this, research, understanding and help from other women. That is the first step to escaping this misery and heartache and destructive energy. Ask God, the Universe for aid in meditation, knowledge and self discovery and believe me, the light is far stronger than his darkness. Your son needs you to be Strong. He will feel and see your energy. Your son will learn to be a respectful man through you if you love yourself enough to leave.
Love, prayers and light,
Hi, I’m Fatima and I would like to have a reading regarding my career/studies. I have been working as a veterinary nurse in UK for the past 5 years but I do not hold a UK qualification so I had to apply to the Register for veterinary nurses.
Since my application I am very stressed and worried, I don’t sleep well at all. To make matters worse my former school in let me down so badly. I was asked to provide further evidence regarding the level of my qualification and I emailed my school, but they refused to answer the queries without plausible explanations. That really made me furious and I wrote a complaint but it did not help at all. I cannot count on my school’s support any longer. I am filled with rage and disappointment because I feel betrayed and cheated.
I would like to know if they might accept my application to the Register or ask me to take the practical exams to assess me and then accept me to the Register.
It will mean the world to me if they accept my application.
I feel next year for you is very much about your studies and moving forward with also personal issues too. I feel around January you will have contact either in the form of a letter or phone call. This seems to be positive. They do tell me you have been let down and it has not only affected your sleep but also eating and trust I also feel. A woman’s energy is very much to do with this and my guide makes me feel tight around my neck as though this woman is very controlling and demanding.
I feel they will test you first and then offer you opportunities. I feel this way will only be a positive. They give two years around training, this I’m sure will make sense to you.
You have moving energy all around you so this tells me things will soon be cleared up for you and you will notice from January you will become more settled and happy. They say try not to worry now as the angels are with you and behind the scenes they are building a path for your new future.
I also pick up connections with America and I believe you will travel at some point in the future for a year. I also feel horses are either a symbol or a meaning to you. Stay positive as things will go your way. Wait till January.
In the meantime you could ask the vets you are working for, for advice or assistance and also keep the pressure on the School in France.
I hope this has helped you and remember sometimes things have to go wrong or go onto a challenging path to allow lessons to come in. Without lessons we can’t build strength to handle future problems. You’re a lot stronger than you believe.
Love and light,
My name is John and I would like to have a reading in regards to my career. At the moment, I am at a privileged position where I have a decent job and I am good at what I do. However, since I was hired in June 2013, I still have that sense of unhappiness, stress. There are moments where I am happy but I have that rollercoaster of emotions on a daily basis and I am never sure about what to do. I have looked at other places to work but not as active as others would like me to, as family and friends can see my hostility and discomfort.
I would just like a piece on mind that ‘everything is going to be okay’, or have any indication as to when my negative feelings will be relieved. I don’t particularly want to leave my current position, but that is because I have fears as if I move on, would I live to regret it? How will my boss react? In addition, I just want to say that I enjoyed my job, because I don’t have that satisfaction that I desire.
It would be great if someone could shed the light on the topic. My career (as well as my family) is what I feel is the most important thing to me and my future happiness.
I’m Sharie, thank you for your time and trust and I hope the following reading brings you the empowerment and peace that you need at this time. I combined my Shamanic skills and psychic abilities with the Tarot of the Northern Shadows a Celtic deck.
It’s obvious you’re asking questions about your job right now but as you say, while you’re experiencing some self-doubts and stress, you’re good at what you do and there are many positive aspects around you with your job. First of all, you need to keep your focus on these positive aspects rather than your more challenging feelings around your work. I feel you are in the right job for you right now and it really is a case of maintaining the right balance. What I pick up from your energy is that you are a very conscientious employee and want to do the best possible job. Don’t worry – I’d say that your boss is aware of this, but you need to beware of taking on too much in your desire to prove yourself. If you find yourself doing two people’s jobs instead of just yours – please don’t be afraid to say so! This isn’t a sign you are letting people down – on the contrary, it’s a sign of good management skills and wanting to maintain the quality of your work. You will actually gain your boss’s respect if you flag up certain issues – not the reverse.
I’m also picking up that you expect higher standards from yourself than even your boss expects from you – or you would expect from others if you were in charge – so please look at issues around this and see if this rings true for you. You may also have a little bit of what is known as ‘impostor syndrome’ going on – where although we know we are good at our jobs (which you mention) we start to wonder if in fact our performance so far is some kind of ‘fluke’ or ‘luck’ -and we’ll end up named and shamed as frauds sooner or later! If this sometimes plays a part for you, then understand that 1) it’s not true and not how you are seen by your boss or co-workers and 2) almost everybody experiences this at one time or another in their working lives!
Right now your inner voice is telling you that you are right where you are supposed to be in terms of your work and that is why you are unable to put any real enthusiasm into looking for a new job. I would therefore advise you not to at this time and to put your trust into the fact that you will know when it is time to move on and find a fresh work challenge. You have the skills and expertise necessary to succeed and all that is required of you at the moment is to look closely at the aspects of your job which are causing you doubt or to feel you are on an ‘emotional rollercoaster’ and to deal with these by either talking to your boss, HR or a manager about how you can manage certain aspects of your role more effectively, or else by looking at whether you are expecting too much of yourself. If you can do this, I am positive you will be in a much better position within the next 5/6 weeks.
Once you can do this and begin to see how your work and your inner wellbeing are linked, your confidence and energy is going to soar and you will be feeling much more motivated and in a position to enjoy not just your job, but family and friends. Ensure you are getting the right work/life balance because real success involves maintaining this. You can’t have one without the other and what is clear from your energy is that is one is out of balance it really will affect your wellbeing on many levels an ability to enjoy your life as well as your work.
The cards really do indicate that you can find a resolution to this issue just by making a few changes perhaps to your workload but also to your thinking around your own expectations of your ‘on-the-job’ performance. Again, although timing can be difficult, I really do feel this will be resolved quite quickly.
You have the ability to really progress as your career path unfolds so look at this as an opportunity to learn how to maintain your enthusiasm for your work and what you have to bring to your job, without risking getting burned out.
I see a great deal of positive change and future success coming in and hope this has helped you resolve this issue.
Love and light,